juz met up wif my good frens for a gathering.. and i am now in shock.. we were discussing who would get married first, who would have babies and how many etc.. and also a few who said they didnt like children n so wouldn't think of having any children even after marriage. and then someone asked, "would u abort if u accidentally got pregnant?" and one of us said yes without hesitation. i am really really quite shocked..
i STRONGLY feel that all babies deserve a chance. they certainly did not choose to be conceived! if you choose to have sex then u jolly well face the consequences! abortion is juz an ugly way to shrink away from ur responsibilities!
abortion is murder (or at least i feel that way)! u cant juz create a whole new being in your body and juz diminish it like it's worthless! i cant understand!
some may just see it as a ball of cells. i see it as a lifetime of opportunities for the little one. he/she can grow up to have a personality of his/her own, a life of his/her own and a whole future lies out in front. if u do not wish to be part of his/her future, ie if u do not wish to be responsible for the baby, then pls DONT HAVE SEX! even use of condoms is not always 100%. maybe go on the pill... to be 100% sure, pls go
sterilise yourself! this way at least you won't need to face the predicament of having
blood on your hands!
if you really are in a bad family situation, and u see no future for the baby in your home, pls give it up for
adoption with MCYS.. every baby deserves a chance. if he/she doesnt have a future with you, you can give him/her a chance with another family.. while you are popping out eggs n throwing them away like they are worthless, there are people out there who are unable to have their own babies and would do anything to have one..
i know there are many ppl out there who think the same way as this fren.. and i won't be able to change any of them. abortion was supposed to be invented for the safety of women.. who cant have babies due to whatever health reasons or conditions they have.. but now we are simply using it as a way of cleaning up after ourselves
pls everybody, don't do it if you are not going to be responsible for the consequences.. life is precious. life is a miracle.. pls dont casually throw away the life of another person..
*very depressed mood*